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O is for Obligation

Release the feeling of obligation. You don’t owe anyone anything! In this post, I revisit periods of my life stuck in unfulfilling work and relationships..you know… places I stayed because I felt she had to, not because they nourished me. Sigh…the weight of imagined debts, societal expectations about stability, and the pain of sacrificing dreams for comfort…

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Where I Come From

Commentary about Phoenix Law #1 from Long Live Phoenixes.

As I continue to learn, love and grow, my Grandma is always in the back of my mind. I know for damn sure she had the strength and a fiery personality like a phoenix. She soared high like a phoenix during her dark seasons and knew when to shed from anything toxic. She knew about molting season. Her name is in black in white in my poetry. Her legacy lives on. My Grandpa’s legacy lives on.

Long Live Phoenixes!

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